I messed up at a college party...

My coursemate came to visit me last week Monday, and he complained about being hungry. He's a big baby. Not used to being away from his mama. He's 17 BTW 😂

So I was in the kitchen making something for us to eat because I was hungry too.

I lifted up my head and looked outside the kitchen window, and I saw her.

I saw Abiodun. Y'all don't know her yet. But you will soon.

Abiodun was the first person I met and made friends with the first day I came to this school.

I didn't have anywhere to stay, and I know I won't be able to go back home the same day (you know how registration is) so when I saw her, I spoke to her.

And we connected. She's a nice person btw. She already had an apartment because she came earlier than I did.

So I asked if I could spend the night at hers since I can't go back home that day. She said it was fine, but she'd have to confirm with her roommate.

So she made the call, and her roommate (Racheal) agreed. That was how I got to know them.

Back to my story. I saw her coming in from the gate, but she wasn't alone.

She was with her roommate. Apparently, they came to get their nails done around my lodge and thought to stop by and say hello.

At first, the air was awkward between Abbey and me because she did something and I called her to speak to her about it, and she didn't acknowledge me.

She was avoiding me until that day. So I was surprised when I saw her at mine.

But I waved it off, and we started small talk. Then they told me about this party that'd be held the next day.

I thought about it… (First party since coming here. I'm antisocial like that 😁)

They talked me into going. Although they didn't do too much talking because I was kinda already into the idea. So I agreed to go.

I told them to stop by mine so we could all go together.

Fast forward to the party venue. Stupid MFs made us pay gate fee 😂😂 I fucking thought only guys paid for that stuff. I thought females were free. Why the hell are these guys asking us to pay? Is this some kind of extrusion or something?

Anyway… we paid and got in.

The party was trash. There were no chairs to sit on. We had to sit on a cement compartment.

The music started to blast, and my ass was hurting like hell because the compartment was hella uncomfortable.

So I decided to get up and vibe a lil to the music.

There ladies and gentlemen was where I messed up.

I was vibing, and this guy from my department (my course rep actually) came and stood behind me (rocking style), and guess what I did…

I rocked him. Some guys filmed us dancing, but I didn't think too much of it. I didn't see the big deal… until the next day.

I went to class, and I was getting stupid ass stares and side talks. Some were loud, so I could hear what they were saying, but I didn't understand.

None of them had the balls to say it to my face.

I went to James (my friend) and asked what the stupid stares and side talks were about, and he told me to check our department's group chat (I never checked that group. Matter of fact, I have them archived cos those kids don't know when to stop)

Lo and behold I saw a video of me rocking my course rep. Turned out that them shitheads posted the video on the group chat.

I hissed. And thought. "No biggie" That's a stupid thing for them to talk about on the sides. These kids do shits that I can't even imagine so why is a lil dance video causing an uproar.

I just shoved it to the side. But TBH.. the side talks were getting annoying. I couldn't confront them though. That'd be stupid of me. So I let it be.

3 days later… I thought it was over. Because they stopped talking about it, until yesterday.

A friend that isn't even in our department sent me a video with the caption "you dey hot o".

I clicked on it, and…

Yep. You already know what video that was.

And guess what… the video was tagged "FuLafia TV" (the school's media)

Yep. Just when I thought it was over. It went viral in school. Ffs.

I got angry. The guy that filmed the video is stupid. Whoever sent it to the school's media team is an asshole, I blamed everyone.

Until… a voice in my mind said "How about the person that did the stupid dance with a 21-year-old kid"?

Yep. I'm stupid too. I mean I don't blame any of them anymore. I blame myself for doing the dance. Not because it was bad, but because I forgot I was with adults at age, but kids by heart.

If you ever get bored, all you have to do is log in to the school's media and you'll see me rocking a child. Ewwww.

I wanna puke so bad. What the hell was I thinking?

Anyway… shit already happened. I'll try not to think too much of it. Don't either.

It will slide. They'll find something else to post in the media and that will trend.

Takeaway… Don't do stupid shit. Especially rocking a kid and getting filmed.

See y'all in subsequent emails.

BTW; I'll be emailing you more frequently now. 3 times weekly. Y'all are getting lazy and I want to change that 😉

So, expect to hear from me 3 times every week.

Yep. That's it for today's email.

Your queen…

Happiness.

Do you have any similar experience? Maybe you got drunk at a party or something like that, I’d like to hear the story. Reply to this email and let’s hear it.