I'll teach you how to set goals in under 5 minutes

My boyfriend, who knows nothing about digital marketing messaged me yesterday asking me to teach him stuff.

He was quite certain about the things he wanted to learn, which were a lot by the way.

I will go over them so you can understand better.

He wanted to learn:

♦ How to prompt AI and get it to give him good responses.

♦How to communicate better without filler words.

♦ How to block out distractions when working (he's taking a course on cybersecurity).

♦ Sales.

♦ How to build better relationship with his business partners so they can always patronize and refer him

♦ How to cultivate a good reading habit

♦ How to cut down on social media and focus on God and his growth as a man

I know what you are thinking…

Isn't this a lot?

I agree with you, for someone who is new to the creator side of the internet, they are way too much and will get him overwhelmed fast.

So what did I do?

I asked him to pick just 3 and we got to work with them.

Now let's talk about you…

Isn't this how your goals for 2026 are?

Didn't you write a full page of things you want to achieve in 2026?

We both know you did, and this is exactly why you don't go past February before quitting.

Let me teach you how to set goals that won't feel overwhelming…

I call it “goal compression”

Some people set goals like this:

1. Achieve my dream body.

2. Eat healthy

3. Stop late night eating

4. Quit drinking

5. Quit smoking

They have 5 goals which can all be compressed into one; Achieve My Dream Body.

Here's the thing…

One clear outcome goal naturally creates supporting habits.

To achieve your dream body you will:

– Start eating healthy

– Quit smoking

– Quit drinking

– Quit eating late at night

Notice how instead of having 5 goals, you have compressed them to just 1 clear outcome goal.

When you commit to one meaningful goal, the right habits form around it.

Now go back to your list of 2026 goals and recheck it.

Consider this a gift from me to you, for leaving you for 2+ years.

But…

The Queen is back now, expect more emails going forward. ☺️

How have you been?

Shoot me a response and tell me how it's going with you.

I want to hear from you.

Your Queen, Happiness (Copyqueen).